It may be hard to believe, but men can get multiple orgasms too. If you are willing to dedicate some time to it, you will learn what many females already have. Men are capable of getting off multiple times and it is sad with the amount of information available today, more people are still unaware of this fact.

How are multiple male orgasms defined? Let’s begin with what they are NOT: achieving an erection, keeping it up awhile, ejaculating. It is a common misconception that male “orgasm” and “ejaculation” are the same thing. That isn’t the truth. Multiple Male Orgasms are not accomplished simply by ejaculating, as the two are not exactly the same thing. However, a lot of men don’t understand this and they don’t think about finding out.

I want to make this perfectly clear. I am talking about multiple orgasms, not multiple ejaculations. If that’s what you are interested in, consult with your physician to see if pills are okay for you.

Now let’s identify the five parts of natural male arousal which are excitement, plateau, orgasm, ejaculation and resolution. It is necessary to realized that the Orgasm point and the Ejaculation point (even though it is close) are different.

The Process

The Excitement Stage – This is characterized by vasocongestion, erection, elevated heart rate, partial elevation of the testes, and size increase (Tumescence), and nipple erection.

The Plateau Phase – This is indicated by a gradual increase in the size of the penis and testicles, total testicle elevation, a purple tinge on the corona, and Cowper’s gland drippings.

The Orgasm Stage – To be upfront, it’s the moment we are all familiar with and adore. At that point, the sperm and other fluids are expelled from the vas deferens, seminal vesicles and prostate gland. This results in the accumulation of seminal fluid at the base of the urethral bulb near the prostate. Next, myotonia (or muscle rigidity) occurs, just prior to the release of tension. During this stage, you will experience slight tingling, signaling you that the moment you have been waiting for has arrived.

The Ejaculation Stage – Here the prostate, perinial muscles, and penile shaft contract rhythmically, propelling the semen outward. Concurrently, there is a slight clouding of consciousness. The body has entered the refractory stage.

The Resolution Stage – Here the erection is lost, the testes descend and the scrotum thins. The myotonia and vasocongestion also reverse.

So how can multiple male orgasms be achieved?

Now, when you let go of your sperm, your body sends hormones out saying that the mission is accomplished, so the penis doesn’t have to remain firm and the blood flow returns to other parts of the body. This is known as the refractory period. If you don’t ejaculate you won’t get soft.

But how can I prevent ejaculating my sperm?

This is when the pubococcygeal muscle, also known as the pelvic floor muscle, or “PC muscle” becomes important. You already know its existence if you have ever tried to hold back while urinating. If you attempt to halt the flow and it is hard for you, then your PC muscle is weak. If this happens to you, you will have to exercise your PC muscle to make it more powerful in order to achieve multiple orgasms. It should feel like the contents inside your pelvis is being pulled inside when you squeeze or contract your PC muscle. All that has to do with MMO relies on possessing incredible control over this muscle. When it has been found (usually it is easy to find when urinating), you can do exercises any place, without anybody being aware of it. If you strengthen this muscle, it is possible to remain totally in control, allowing you to have two, three or even four orgasms before you reach your final climax.

So I located the muscle and it is strengthened; then what?

Do you remember the point of no return? This doesn’t have to be the case. The secret to having Multiple Male Orgasms is to approach the point of climax and then, just before the big moment, use that muscle. This is the reason that it is critical to distinguish between an orgasm and ejaculation.

Will these orgasms be as great as a complete finish?

They will not; however, you’ve just experienced double or triple what is normally expected and you still can go on and complete the act.

What can I do if my pubococcygeal muscle is not very strong?

Now here is the enjoyable part: Practice doing it while masturbating. Avoid any distractions by being alone. Concentrating on breathing can assist in finding the PC muscle. Thinking about your breathing can help you pay attention to your body so you will realize when ejaculation is about to happen. Each time you arouse yourself, locate your limit and get closer to it every time. Approach the Event Horizon, and when you are near, relax and back off from that. Every time you do it, exercise your PC muscle. Every time you will get closer. See how strong you are when you go past it. It may not quite work the first few tries, but you still had fun so don’t worry.

Can it be compared to riding a bike and when I know the procedure for MMO, will it last a lifetime?

Absolutely not. You have to keep the muscle strong. Like other muscles, if it isn’t used, it loses strength. If you develop it, have a sexual relationship for several months, break up and then do not have another relationship for awhile, you will have to keep in shape during your break in sexual activity.

Enjoy this new skill. Rather than just assuming that you are hot in bed, I recommend that you read the Kama Sutra (either online summaries or a book) or study Chakras and how they can relate to sex. You would hate to erroneously believe that you are a real stud, when in reality, your partner is faking it, and you are extending the session for a longer time than he/she would like. Remember that this has been recommended in Tao and other Eastern practices for hundreds of years, so it is thought to be safe. However, if any unusual side effects should occur, stop using this method.

1. Lessen the scariness of the sexual experience. Avoid worrying too much about your erectile problems.
2. Inject a little variety into your romance. Check into a hotel room for a special evening. Get some sexy new undergarments for your wife. Don’t make sex into just another daily routine.
3. Frequently, stress is a big part of poor sexual performance. Be sure you sleep soundly at night, and look for ways to relax during the day.
4. A main source of sexual discontent is marital or relationship problems. You should strive to avoid accusations when verbalizing your emotions.
5. Don’t be afraid to talk about your sex preferences with your partner.
6. Prior to sex, do not have any alcohol because it will impair your sexual functioning.
7. Remember to have confidence in yourself in order to have a successful sexual experience.
8. Getting support and involvement from your sex partner can lead to fewer sexual difficulties.
9. There is no reason to feel ashamed or guilty about sexual difficulties. This is not a sign of abnormality.
10. Educate yourself with instructive reading matter on the subject of sex. Often they provide helpful insights into the problem.
11. Penis size isn’t the only issue or even the main one. Being creative with your sex life will add to its enjoyment.
12. Fantasizing while with your partner can raise your libido level.
13. Self-stimulation can be employed to relieve stressful feelings about sexual performance.
14. You shouldn’t have trepidation about seeking treatment from an expert, like a sex therapist.
15. Consider Viagra. Composed of citrate salt of sildenafil, Viagra is a pill which has established its capability for treating an array of health conditions.